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First outing

So today I had a pretty long day. I got home the night before from a friends birthday thing at a local swanky pool hall around 1am or so, and got up bright and early for an 830 am flag football game...Who does that? Anyway after that I did volunteer work, then cleaned out my car, washed my car, and then was really pooped. But, since I started this blog, i thought it was about time I went out with the friend that introduced me to "The Game", we'll call him noodle for now. Anyway, so I call up noodle, but i guess his phone's broken, so i got ahold of him through AIM. We chat a bit and then I decide to get ready and head over to his place. I think We end up sitting there for a good hour just chatting it up and giving him some of the details of my social circle and my friend's, we'll call him Monkey, theory on some of the PUA stuff. Monkey is an up and comming PUA up in Seattle. He's been mainly been giving me the most pointers. Noodle has really only read the book and isn't much the teaching type. Anyway, so we head out to this newer club and we walk in and i'm kinda digging the atmosphere. But I think I lacked the energy to really try to do any pickup. I think i have the potential to be a pretty decent PUA, once i start getting into a convo, I think i can hold the interest, however approach anxiety is still keeping me in the AFC stage. I start the night off by opening guys, just to losen up a bit and to create some social dynamic. I then realize creating a social dynamic around the dance floor of a club, probably doesn't work out very well. I start thinking about how "The Game" applies to pickup at a club. The loungy area seemed to be the best place, but it was mostly like private seating, and i'm not sure if i was ready for that yet. I talk to a few of the ladies that were just standing around, but nothing worth a target. I really need to work on the openers and the immediate transiitons. I need to discard my social programming as well, right now i'm setting myself up to fail, sort of a self fullfilling profiecy. My grade for the night, F.

Some openers I thought about while just standing there or got from the game or other resources
Friend has a GF that found a box of sentimental things from past GF and wants to discard them blah blah blah.
Who lies more, men or women?
What pizza toppings do you like?
If you had a super power, what would it be - i think this can turn into a game...However, it seems invisibility seems to be the most common answer.
I know i came up with more, but i can't think about it right now, so maybe more later

posted by beiowulf @ 2:39 AM